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Wisdom Nuggets for Building Emotional Intelligence Feb 27th 2018
STEPS TO EFFECTIVE BONDING Part 2
It was established in part one of this article that for effective bonding, there is need for friendship, relationship and courtship. And we discovered that the body really wants to partake in the bonding process. Sex is constantly knocking on the door of your soul, and giving in to sex before marriage is nothing but _formication_ which is a sin against your body. The fear for many singles is that, how would they know if they are sexually compatible if they cannot experiment with sex?
Here is simple way to test for sexual compatibility. I call it the _straw of compatibility_. I refer to it as a straw because, it takes a straw to get at the content in a bottle without having to interact with the container. The content is sexual character, while the container is the body.
Here are for _Emotional Intelligence Straws_ for ascertaining compatibility.
1. *_Eye to Eye Contact_* Sexual compatibility can easily be revealed through eye contact. When eyes lock, certain vibes travel down the spine of two people in love.
2. *_Voice to voice_* Each partner longs to hear the voice of the other. Just listening to one another sends modulated signals that is demodulated in the emotional compartment of the soul.
3. *_Eyes to body_* Both partners long to see each other constantly. They constantly yearn for fellowship or to be in the company of each other. Mind you, not for inter course but for interactive interview.
4. *_Hand to body_* They tend to find pleasure in hugging, holding hands while walking on the street and light pecking on the cheek or forehead. No kisses. If you must kiss, it must be the one prescribed by Apostle Paul - a holy kiss.
If these four straws can be followed religiously, it would set the stage for a romantic jolly ride in marriage.
Marriage is not all about sex, but effective bonding. This is because your partner would certainly spring up surprises in marriage, some good, some bad and some ugly, but you need emotional intelligence to effectively manage them, and keep your home intact. That is why is it is said, _"marriage is two forgivers living together"_ The key is Effective Bonding.
Philemon 1, Joshua 1:8, Ephesians 3:20
Whatever hand of the wicked is positioning itself against your well being comes under a curse.
Anybody hiding in darkness, pretending to be your friend or well wisher but shooting arrows at you would be exposed, disgraced and destroyed in Jesus name.
As you step into the month of march, you and your family would match with wisdom into your wealthy place in Jesus name.
*_Good 〽orning_* and have a holy Spirit inspiring day. Expect sudden good news. Someone would remember you today.
*🎙Pst. Kay Daniels*
_*✈ March 2018: Our month of DIVINE WISDOM FOR NEW DIMENSIONS*_ 1 Kings 3:1-28